The Realization

AAFES (The Army Air Force Exchange Service) is not a store for everyone, although by design it is supposed to be. It is only a store for adults who do not mind being bombarded with sexually explicit slogans and images throughout the store. Additionally, AAFES has no policy that prevents children from purchasing CDs with explicit lyrics, movies that are rated R (Restricted), and or video games that are rated M (Mature). Because of this, we are asking AAFES to incorporate policies that are very similar to what Wal-Mart has already put in place. We call this standard "the Wal-Mart Standard". In time, we hope that AAFES rises to the challenge and adopts this standard as the norm so that children and principled adults can shop for supplies in a family-friendly environment.

Our Mission

Our mission is to help AAFES make sensible changes to its current policies that result in every AAFES establishment becoming family-friendly.

A Call to AAFES

1. Incorporate a pro-family stance into the AAFES Mission Statement reflecting the values of the people AAFES serves - military families.

2. Develop, publish, and implement a family-friendly policy. The following must be included in this policy:

2a. Stop selling all pornography (e.g. Playboy) and publications that appeal to prurient interest (e.g. Maxim, FHM, Stuff, Cosmopolitan, Heavy Metal).

2b. Do not position any publications that might be interpreted as offensive in areas where the customer is a captive audience (e.g. checkout aisle, store entrance, restroom hallway).

2c. Stop selling all music labeled "Explicit Lyrics".

2d. Post a sign clearly visible at each register and enforce a policy that states no rated "M for Mature" games and "R for Restricted" movies will be sold to anyone less than 18 years of age.

Contact AAFES

Anyone can call (1-800-527-6790) or email them at commander@aafes.com. You can also fill out an online comment form if you are in the military. They always send a response, so let them know what you think about this important issue!

Saturday, October 21, 2006

Video Game Comparison: AAFES vs. Wal-Mart



What we are asking of AAFES, with regards to our "Call to AAFES", is to follow the pro-family example of Wal-Mart - especially with M-rated video games (for 17 or older). FixAAFES.org commends AAFES for not selling A-rated video games (for adults), but we stress that the lack of a plan for M-rated games is unsatisfactory.

The following information about what Wal-Mart is doing to police up the video game industry was taken from ICCR.org. Wal-Mart is currently doing the following:

1. Wal-Mart forbids the selling of A-rated games. AAFES does also.

2. Wal-Mart has cash register prompts reminding cashiers that they must verify the age of a customer purchasing M-rated games. AAFES doesn't.

3. Wal-Mart formally trains its cashiers about video game ratings. AAFES doesn't.

4. Wal-Mart has empowered its stores to take disciplinary action. AAFES hasn't.

5. Wal-Mart displays signs with ESRB Ratings and Meanings. AAFES doesn't.

6. Wal-Mart has a policy that prohibits the selling of M-rated games to those under seventeen years of age. AAFES doesn't.
Wal-Mart gets 6 thumbs up. AAFES gets only 1 thumbs up and 5 thumbs down. Our Military and their children deserve better than that.

Friday, October 20, 2006

Positive Signs at the Commissary



Today at the Fort Riley Commissary, I was encouraged. When waiting in line to pay for my groceries, I noticed that there was a Men's Fitness magazine covered in the same manner that is pictured above. I was pleased that this particular check-out aisle was kid-friendly. This is a victory for Fort Riley's military families.

Curious, I asked the cashier why the magazine was covered. She stated, "some jealous woman complained about and it; so they covered it."

I simply smiled, checked out, loaded my groceries in the car, and walked back in to the Commissary. This time, I went to the customer service office and asked to speak to the manager. The manager wasn't on duty, but the assistant manager was. He came quickly to the front probably anticipating a complaint. I told him, "I have a compliment for your store, I want to let you know because I know compliments are rare."

I asked the assistant manager to follow me so that I could show him what I was pleased about. I then showed him the magazine that was covered and said that this was "...a good step in the right direction. This is what customers expect." The manager told me that he was simply responding to customer complaints. I told him that I appreciate what he did and that a good rule of thumb is - if ever in doubt, cover it up, because military parents deserve the right to determine what their children are exposed to."

Toward the end of our pleasant conversation, he told me that if his headquarters knew that he covered the magazine, they wouldn't be pleased. Surprised, I responded that if he receives retribution from his chain of command for covering this or any other magazine he should let me know because I would support him in front of his superiors. Motivated by my compliment, he said, "I know there are more magazines that aren't covered that should be; maybe I should look into that." Of course I agreed, but in the end I was simply encouraged by the current situation.

Additionally, I would like to comment on Men's Fitness Magazine. Usually, it isn't a bad magazine. However, if one issue is questionable, AAFES needs to err on the side of protecting children. This magazine is questionable because its cover states "10 sex tips". Also, it is objectionable because it has pictured a woman with her breasts bulging out of her swimsuit top. Swimsuit tops aren't bad. We all go to the beach. But adding sex to the equation makes the magazine inappropriate. Parents have a right to not have their kids exposed to this stuff. There should never be an "in-your-face" approach to selling periodicals. Selling questionable magazines in the check-out aisle is unacceptable.

In conclusion, the Commissary at Fort Riley, Kansas has set the standard for local managers. Although FixAAFES.org would like to still see Cosmopolitan and the like removed from the AAFES inventory, covering the magazines is a major step in the the right direction. We at FixAAFES.org hope that AAFES as a whole follows the example of this local leader and implements this policy world-wide.

Allow me to also note, some may argue that the current system works - when local managers receive complaints from customers they act. However, this positive sign at the Commissary has not, as far as I've seen, been the standard response of local mangagers. Many local managers have a nonchalant or sometimes confrontational attitude towards customers who don't agree with the way they are running their store. For this reason, a company-wide policy is essential.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

AAFES Cut & Paste Standard Reply



Anytime one complains to AAFES regarding sexually explicit material, AAFES always sends the same standard reply. It never includes solutions nor does it include new courses of action to fix anything. Their response attempts to make one feel like part of some scarce minority. However, it is well know in the business community that customers who harbor a complaint rarely voice it. Research has indicated that there are several reasons for this. Often, customers are afraid their voice will not be heard, or they may simply want to avoid confrontation altogether. Therefore, when we do voice our concerns, AAFES must realize that every one complaint may in fact represent numerous others who share our views.

This cut-and-paste reply that many of us have received indicates that AAFES has heard these complaints before. It is time AAFES addresses our concerns instead of passing the buck like they attempt to do here:

AAFES thanks you for utilizing the Exchange Customer Comment Program to let us know that you have had a recent concern with sexually explicit headlines at our check-out lines.

First, let me start by saying AAFES is a "family" store and we go to great efforts to ensure our customers have a pleasant experience while shopping in our stores. In regard to magazine presentation, AAFES has a very clear policy about the location and presentation of "adult magazines" which the magazine industry classifies as Men ' s Sophisticates (e.g. Playboy). These magazines must have restrictive closures applied by the supplier to avoid random customer browsing, and are displayed on the top shelf/shelves of the self-service magazine display rack with only the title showing. An "adult reading material" panel will be used if the display fixture allows more than the title show.

Exchanges are to post a sign in the display area stating: WE SELL ADULT-ORIENTED MAGAZINES TO CUSTOMERS 18 YEARS OR OLDER. PLEASE DO NOT OPEN SEALED MAGAZINES. Managers are to check the magazine display racks regularly to make sure adult magazines aren ' t left where underage customers can reach them...and they check to ensure the restrictive closures are in place.

However, the magazines at our central-checkout do not fall in this category-they are classified as Women ' s General, Women ' s Fashions, Teen, House & Gardening, Weeklies, Tabloid, Social-Literary, etc. The criteria for the classification are based on the magazine content and not the cover. The magazine companies pay retailers, like AAFES, to display their magazines at their central checkouts.

Normally, the covers of these magazines are not bothersome to most of our customers. Nevertheless, we are aware that an occasional issue of a "non-adult magazine" can have an offensive cover, such as the recent issue of some magazines. The local general manager then has the option of placing a panel over the magazine to cover everything but the title until that issue is sold out. We encourage customers, like you, to notify the manager on duty if they are bothered by any of our central-checkout magazines so appropriate action can be taken.

The Military Honor and Decency Act of 1996 (Section 2489a, Title 10, United States Code) prohibits the sale or rental of sexually explicit materials on property under the jurisdiction of the Department of Defense (DoD).

At the direction of the Secretary of Defense, a Resale Activities Board of Review was established to review publications and other materials that might be viewed as sexually explicit. As a result of that review, a list of publications and other materials that may not be sold on property under the authority of DoD was published on 21 Sept 98, as was a list of publications that may be sold on property under DoD authority. The Commander of AAFES has instructed managers of all AAFES facilities to remove from sale all materials deemed sexually explicit by the Board of Review.

It is important to note that the Army and Air Force Exchange Service did not develop the list of approved publications. Those decisions were made at the Department of Defense, and our comment on them would be inappropriate. We suggest questions on these matters be directed to the Principal Deputy Under Secretary of Defense for Personnel and Readiness.

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Porn A Growing Problem in Military (Family.org Article)



Taken from Family.org:

Porn A Growing Problem in Military
from staff reports

Chaplains report an increasing number of confessions from servicemen and women about addiction.

Pornography is causing a problem in the military, with chaplains overseas and at home reporting that an increasing number of servicemen and women are confessing to their pastors about porn's hold on them.

Father Mark Reilly, a Marine Corps chaplain, recently returned from a tour in Iraq where he heard continual confessions from soldiers addicted to porn.

"People will mail them stuff," he told Family News in Focus, "and the Internet is the biggest source of the spread of this addiction I would say."

The combination of war stress and being away from loved ones is a bad mixture for a porn addiction, he explained, adding that curbing the problem starts at home.

"I have trouble with the fact that you can step into the PX and buy pornography," Reilly said. "I don't think our Post Exchanges need to be in the business of peddling porn."

Congress enacted the Military Honor and Decency Act in 1996 to ban the sale of sexually explicit magazines and videos at military stores. Elaine Donnelly, president of the Center for Military Readiness, said the law isn't being enforced.

"When a military base makes available pornography, or condones it, or does nothing about it when it comes in through other areas," she said, "it sort of implies that it's OK with the leadership."

Donnelly said she wants porn in the PX revisited, and it should start with admitting there's a problem.

"Congress is going to have to take a look at this. Certainly the Pentagon is going to have to enforce those rules," she said. "It's a matter of good order and discipline and not just a matter of religion or free speech. It's a matter that the military itself needs to be concerned about."

In the meantime, the only help soldiers are finding is in the confessional and from their chaplains.

Unsolicited Sex Education



According to our "Call to AAFES" we ask AAFES to not position any offensive materials in areas where the customer is a "captive audience". In this article, I would like to elaborate on what we mean by this request.

We are talking mainly about the checkout aisle. In the AAFES checkout aisle, every customer gets an immediate sexual education class - whether they want one or not. Here is a list of what one might expect to read in the AAFES checkout aisle taken from the past two issues of Cosmopolitan:

“Sex vs. Skanky”
“30 Sex Boosters”
“Discover the Sex Fantasy That 68% of Men Have”
“Orgasms Unlimited”
“8 Places to Have Sex"

There are other magazines AAFES has in their checkout aisle that have similar titles. Children, who are authorized customers of AAFES, have to checkout through this same aisle that adults do. There are also adults who are principled who don't want to see those slogans either.

AAFES should immediatly stop selling these titles for the reasons above, but more importantly because these titles represent a stark contrast to the military culture of decency and military mission of winning hearts and minds while serving overseas.

Pornography a Problem in the Military (ABC News Article)



Taken from ABCNews.Go.com:

Combating the 'Problem of Pornography'
Divorce rates in the military have risen, especially in the Army, where the number of divorces nearly doubled from 2001 to 2004, according to the Center for Research on Military Organization at the University of Maryland.

Chaplain Randy Brandt, stationed in Schweinfurt, Germany, said the kits have helped combat the "problem of pornography."

"Even while we were in Iraq, the pervasion of this problem was evident — soldiers had porno CDs they could play on their personal DVDs, and they had sexually suggestive magazines "graciously" donated for the soldiers' entertainment," Brandt said. "The problem is an age-old one with the military: Soldiers are far away from home for a long time, sexual frustration sets in, and the visual stimuli become the easiest release."

But Brandt said the real problem starts when the soldiers return home.

"The soldiers come home, many are addicted to this type of sexual stimulation and either consciously or subconsciously they begin to compare their current relationship with the visual/Internet/virtual reality that they are used to and unfortunately, the real woman — wife or girlfriend — rarely can measure up," Brandt said.

1st Infantry Division General Order #1



When the First Infantry Division deployed to Iraq, the Commanding General, MG John Batiste, issued General Order #1. The purpose of this order is to "identify conduct that is prejudicial to good order and discipline while deployed in the Iraqi Theater of Operations."

One of the items identified as prohibited in this order is the use of pornography. Apparently, according to MG Batiste, pornography (to include sexually explicit images and words) affects "good order and discipline" in the ranks of the 1st ID while serving in Iraq. Below are the exact words dealing with sexually explicit items.

4. PROHIBITED ACTIVITIES:
c. Possession, transfer, sale, creation, or display of any pornographic or sexually explicit material.
5. DEFINITIONS:
d. Pornography: Any depiction (either by writing or picture) of erotic behavior intended to cause sexual excitement.

Now what does all this mean to AAFES? AAFES is to support the mission of the military. The military is not a career or job, it is a profession. Within this profession, there is a seperate standard - a seperate mission. AAFES' sole job is to support the men and women of the Armed Forces. According to this, their products should be in line with the military mission.

How can Soldiers, who train to fight wars, switch from buying pornography and sexually explicit materials at their local government store (AAFES) and then deploy and be expected to immediatly do away with it altogether? The bottom line is Service Members shouldn't have to. AAFES should be supportive, in-touch with the mission, and make the adjustment.

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Explicit Lyrics - Wal-Mart Doesn't Sell Them


This is Wal-Mart's policy on the selling of CDs with explicit lyrics:

Wal-Mart will not stock music with parental guidance stickers. While Wal-Mart sets high standards, it would not be possible to eliminate every image, word or topic that an individual might find objectionable. And the goal is not to eliminate the need for parents to review the merchandise their children buy. The policy simply helps eliminate the most objectionable material from Wal-Mart's shelves.
(Taken from PBS.org)

If Wal-Mart has made this decision, I don't see why AAFES can't do the same. Not only has this protected children who are Wal-Mart customers, it has forced the music industry to make less-explicit music. This makes sense to me, and I think AAFES should follow suit as stated in our "A Call to AAFES".

Monday, October 09, 2006

A Victory



Image taken from defenselink.mil

My wife and I went to AAFES on a weekend in September and had asked the manager to cover the September issue of FHM that showed an almost nude woman with only ropes and panties covering her private parts. This magazine could easily be seen by children from the children's book aisle that is positioned directly in front of the magazine rack.

My wife approached the store manager about this problem. The store manager, when talking to my wife, became confrontational and argumentative. However, in the end, she agreed to fix the problem by placing that particular issue behind a blinder with the Playboys.

Later that week, my wife and I decided to meet for lunch at the AAFES food court. We then decided to check out the magazine aisle in order to verify if our request that weekend was still respected. It was not. That particular issue was displayed yet again with an "in-your-face" manner so that all passers-by would be forced to see it.

At this point, I got personally got involved and asked an AAFES employee if I could speak to the manager myself (as only my wife spoke to her last time). The employee told me that the store manager is currently escorting the AAFES regional manager throughout the store. I then asked him if I could speak to the regional manager, because he would probably be someone who could make more of an impact.

I approached the regional manager (who will remain anonymous) and told him the situation. We discussed many different topics ranging from the current magazine issue problem to the "Honor and Decency Act of 1996". He was very responsive and respectful about the problem mentioned above. Not only did he decide to fix the problem by covering that particular issue, but he decided to cover all the magazines that displayed provocative images. To this day, at the Fort Riley PX, all pornography, FHM, Stuff, and Maxim magazines are covered by blinders – a significant local victory.

This is a step in the right direction. This is a welcomed temporary fix at the Fort Riley PX, but it doesn't affect all of the other AAFES establishments on Fort Riley (e.g. Shoppettes) or any of the other AAFES locations worldwide. Nor is it a permanent fix because as soon as there is a new regional manager - that change can be undone. To put it metaphorically, the leaky pipe has tape on it, but we still need a new pipe. We need a permanent, legally binding change in the way AAFES approaches its product catalog and display. I sincerely appreciate this regional manager's willingness to make changes and encourage all AAFES executives to be more like him as we move forward.

AAFES Mission Statement



This is the AAFES mission statement that needs to be amended:

AAFES mission is to provide quality merchandise and services of necessity and convenience to authorized customers at competitively low prices; and generate reasonable earnings to supplement appropriated funds for the support of Army and Air Force Morale, Welfare, and Recreation Programs.
(Taken from AAFES.com)

So in a nutshell, according to their mission statement, this should be the logical break-down of AAFES' priorities:

1. Sell cheap products to the military & its families (authorized customers)
2. Make a profit (reasonable earnings)
3. Give that profit to MWR (which is supposed to support military families)

So, although it is implied that AAFES is supposed to support military families, according to this mission, it only does so with money. Families and children deserve safe, healthy, and friendly places to shop as well as cheap prices and the funding of social programs.

The AAFES mission statement needs to be amended to read something like:

AAFES mission is to provide quality merchandise and services of necessity and convenience to authorized customers at competitively low prices; and generate reasonable earnings to supplement appropriated funds for the support of Army and Air Force Morale, Welfare, and Recreation Programs; and ensure a decent and innocuous shopping experience for all authorized customers.

AAFES has done a lot of good with its money. However, profit and funding MWR are seen more as priorities than customer service or having a friendly shopping environment. Even if a tremendous amount of money is made from selling explicit material, that amount of money should never outweigh a duty to an organization's moral fiber, especially when the possible exploitation of children is involved.

Children are not the only ones who fall victim to these explicit slogans and images - military wives do to. They browse the cooking and household magazines only to find service members standing next to them reading Stuff and Maxim magazines. That makes women feel extremely uncomfortable knowing that a man is reading about sexual positions and looking at sexually seductive images right before they turn to them and say "hello" or "excuse me" as they walk by.

As stated in our "A Call to AAFES" we ask AAFES to please rewrite its Mission Statement to reflect a more family-friendly tone.

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Censorship



Censorship is the control of speech or other human expression. The freedoms against censorship granted to Americans comes primarily from the First Amendment of the Constitution which states:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

One could almost argue that asking AAFES to not sell pornography or CD's with explicit lyrics is censorship. However, that argument is logically invalid because the First Amendment states that we have the right to say what we want, but it doesn't guarantee us the ability to make a profit off of our speech. You can say what you want, but people don't have to be forced to listen to it or be forced to pay for it. That is why Wal-mart and Target don't sell pornography, because they choose not to.

Also, since AAFES is a government store, it could be argued that the government is censoring products. That just doesn't pass the common sense test. A store can't sell everything - even if it is a government store. It isn't going to sell books that teach us how to build bombs nor is it going to sell books that teach us how to break into government computer servers. AAFES "bans" those books from its product catalogs because they would threaten national security. A store can't sell everything, so by its very nature, even if it is run by the government, it must be selective in what it sells.

Another point. AAFES serves the military. The military doesn't fall under the First Amendment, those rights are actually taken away when you take your Oath of Enlistment or Commission. In fact, the military falls under a totally different judicial code called the Uniformed Code of Military Justice (UCMJ). In order to maintain good order and discipline, Congress and the President have powers within the Constitution to limit the speech of Service Members. Some laws in the UCMJ that limit free speech are Articles 88-90. They read as follows:

Article 88:
Any commissioned officer who uses contemptuous words against the President, the Vice President, Congress, the Secretary of Defense, the Secretary of a military department, the Secretary of Transportation, or the Governor or legislature of any State, Territory, Commonwealth, or possession in which he is on duty or present shall be punished as a court-martial may direct.

Article 89:
Any person subject to this chapter who behaves with disrespect toward his superior commissioned officer shall be punished as a court-martial may direct.

Article 90:
Any person subject to this chapter who—
(1) strikes his superior commissioned officer or draws or lifts up any weapon or offers any violence against him while he is in the execution of his office; or
(2) willfully disobeys a lawful command of his superior commissioned officer; shall be punished, if the offense is committed in time of war, by death or such other punishment as a court-martial may direct, and if the offense is committed at any other time, by such punishment, other than death, as a court-martial may direct.”


Not only to these military laws limit free speech, but they give superiors the ability to tell service members what to do. That is definitely not freedom; it is essential for discipline, however.

So back to AAFES. AAFES serves the military who falls under UCMJ. If AAFES sells products that contradict the spirit of the military, it shouldn't sell them. And if the military commanders or the civilian command authority decides a product undermines discipline in the military, they have every right, under the law, to ban that product. This in no way is censorship, because books are still allowed to be printed, movies are still allowed to be made, and CD's are still allowed to be produced. These companies just aren't going to make a profit on the military who wish to maintain their Honor and Decency.

Monday, October 02, 2006

FixAAFES.org Seeking Endorsements



FixAAFES.org is seeking endorsements from family groups and any organization that shares our goals and values. If you are interested in partnering for this cause or endorsing FixAAFES.org please email me at administrator@fixaafes.org. If you would like to discuss this topic over the phone please leave your phone number in your email.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Chain of Command


In the traditions of the military, we have chosen to use the chain of command with these complaints. In this situation, the chain of command consists of the following:

1. AAFES
2. DOD
3. Congress and the President (and of course the Supreme Court)

We have a duty to use the chain of command because most commanders, when confronted with problems, simply fix them. AAFES will never get "fixed" if AAFES itself isn't given the chance to make the adjustments.

This is the new FixAAFES.org

My wife and I have revised this website to be more fluid. Thanks to all those who assisted us with the old website. We look forward to making progress in making AAFES more family friendly.